For the past several weeks, these words have been resounding in my head. Be the gift. Be the gift. What does it mean and why can’t I get it out of my head? It is that time of year when we run ourselves ragged with Holiday parties, Holiday shopping, decorating the house, putting up lights, making sure everyone has a gift under the tree. It can be exhausting! But these words keep coming back to me. Be the gift. Be the gift. When I reflect on it, I see that yet once again I’ve been neglectful. There are people that are dear to me that I have not talked to. No, like really talked to. Like sit down in a chair, dial the number and talk for 20-30 minutes or more. No social media, no texting and for heavens sake, stop with the group texts! There are so many people out there that just need to hear a kind voice, or shudder the thought…..read a lovely note. Instead of making a shopping list, I need to make a call list. And just do it! Today I talked to my sweet Aunt Eddie. She is 94 years young. She is one of the best cooks I know. And one of the kindest, most intelligent people I know. She has always treated me like a daughter rather than a niece. So of course, she was at the top of my call list. Next up, Aunt Cathy! I’m making my list and checking it twice. I would encourage you to make a call list. Or even better, a visit list. Make your “be the gift” list and be sure to deliver! Maybe it’s the person next door, a line sister, someone who has lost a loved one, the older couple down the street or someone at work that just looks like they could use a bit of kindness. Let’s commit to each other to slow down. To be attentive to those around us. We don’t have to go far and it doesn’t cost a dime to “be the gift”.
Happy Sunday Saints!